Stay or leave: how to make the hardest relationship decision

This is probably one of the hardest decisions you'll ever make. There's love — or there was. There are memories, shared habits, maybe a shared life. And yet the doubt won't go away.

Why this is so hard

The difficulty is that you're trying to evaluate two things at once: how the relationship is right now, and how it could be. That makes clear thinking almost impossible. Your head says one thing, your gut another.

Questions worth sitting with

• When was the last time you felt genuinely good in this relationship?
• What would need to change for you to be certain you want to stay?
• Are you doubting the relationship, or the person?
• What's keeping you from leaving — love, fear, habit, or something else?

What Beslisflow does for you

Beslisflow asks you ten focused questions about your specific situation. Not about relationships in general, but about what you experience and what your doubt is telling you. You'll get a personal report that lays your situation out clearly — what the real risk is, and which direction makes the most logical sense for you.

Frequently asked questions